What’s Up Players!
G’Day Gamer Guys & Gals!
Thank you for coming over for a special blog today!
Today is “Friday Free For All” where no topic is off limits, and I also answer your questions!
So Let’s Get Right Into It!
Today I Have A Question from “Rick in Minnesota” –
I love watching your Youtube videos and reading your blog posts.
They are a lot of fun, so I figured I would write in to ask a question of my own and see what you think!
My days consist of working and coming home to chill & game. I hardly have any time to meet anyone.
What are some suggestions you have to meet an awesome gamer girl like you?”
~ Rick In Minnesota
Thank you so much for writing in!
I love to hear that you love my videos and blogs!
It means a lot to me and I appreciate every single one of my viewers and readers, including you!
Your question is a lot more common than you may think…
Which is surprising to me, really!
I meet so many great gamer guys that I would never guess are shy, and it always comes as a big surprise when I find out they don’t feel confident!
So I guess let’s start with how to meet a girl..and then how to keep her once you have her!
(I can only speak for myself and what I would be looking for, but I think I am a great judge of these things, so here we go!)
As far as where to meet a gamer girl that you are interested in, – my number one piece of advice is to visit and support her stream!
You get to really know a person if you visit their stream as you get a great feel for their personality.
Anyone can look good in pictures nowadays thanks to filters and snapchat, but there is a realness with Twitch that can’t be beat compared to most other social media platforms.
Don’t misunderstand me –
Twitch is NOT a dating site, nor do I recommend going on Twitch just to cruise for girls.
(Seriously! Do not do this! )
What I mean is that if there is someone you are already interested in, and they just so happen to stream, follow them and show your support!
Even if you don’t end up being compatible relationship wise, you have gained each other as new friends!
Obvious choices if you had the time, would be to visit the notorious spots where gamer girls frequent.
Such as: game stores, expos, tournaments and the like.
But be warned, most of those girls are there to game, and NOT to hook up!
And the worst thing you can do is to come off as sleazy by forcing something that makes them uncomfortable.
Most of the lasting couples that I have met, can all attest to the fact that they didn’t force anything.
True love and attraction will happen naturally without forcing it!
That doesn’t mean it is not your job to put yourself out there and meet someone – because it is…
But don’t go into a situation with the stress of having to “score” a girlfriend.
Let things take their natural course.
You all know I believe in fate…
The true things that are meant to be, will always follow their destiny.
And remember, if you really like someone and they turn out NOT to be a gamer,
Don’t let that be a deal breaker!
You can always teach them how to game sometime and invite them to share in a hobby that you enjoy, and vice versa!
I would definitely advise not letting the fact that they game or not, be a deciding factor.
It’s ok to have different interests.
Sometimes opposites attract!
As long as you can be yourselves around each other no matter what, that is what matters!
And remember to follow up being yourself, with treating her like a queen!
This is how you are not only going to get her..but KEEP HER!
Don’t get me wrong, I know a lot of girls out there that don’t appreciate a good guy…
…but at the end of the day, I can guarantee you that you don’t want a girl like that anyway!
Save yourself the prolonged misery!
Always find someone that is going to honor you and respect you but make sure you are doing the same.
The right person will come to you when the time is right.
Don’t push it. You are not defined by your partner or the lack or one.
There are plenty of single people who live amazing fulfilled lives. Sometimes we have to remember that it is ok to be “alone” too. if you fill your life with great friends and great games…
Are you ever really alone?
I love you all and thank you so much for being here for another edition of Ru’s Daily!
Tomorrow is a special weekend edition of RUvealed on Ru’s Daily!
Send in your questions and things you want to know about your girl it’s going to be interesting! 😉
See you tomorrow for our weekend date! 😉
“The Course Of True Love Never Did Run Smooth.” ~ William Shakespeare