G’Day Gamer Gals & Guys!
A lot of my readers have been sending messages with a lot of great comments and questions for me.
First of all, thank you all for reading my daily blog, and if you ever have any questions or need any help – please write me here at Saljack Enterprises and I would love to do what I can to help or give you any advice!
So the question I received is:
“ Dear Ru,
I know that you are a gamer girl and love games. But what would you do if your boyfriend gamed for hours and hours and wouldn’t communicate or spend time with you?”
,Sincerely, ‘Ignored in Illinois’
My opinion on this may or may not surprise you …
You may think that being a gamer girl I would recommend that she gets on the couch and learns so she can eventually join him in a game. And I do, in a way…but it’s so much more than that.
If you have a genuine interest in games and you just don’t feel like you are a good enough player to join him yet; then I would recommend watching how he plays and asking genuine gameplay questions to express your interest. I don’t mean bothering him with stupid questions like: “Who’s that guy and what’s his backstory?” I mean ask questions like: ”Wow, that running slide was awesome..how did you do that?” And I guarantee he will both swell with pride and share his love with you because of your genuine interest.
But here is what I would really recommend to any girl that wants more attention from their gamer guy.
Don’t change who you are…enhance it.
What the hell do I mean?
Well, what are YOU passionate about?
If it is not really gaming, don’t focus on gaming. There is no point in dedicating your time to something that is not benefiting you in any way. I don’t mean stop supporting your gamer guy. I mean start focusing on yourself.
Instead of wasting time sitting next to your guy if you have no intention of playing, focus your time on your own passions.
Are you crafty? – a cosplayer? – a musician? – do like to exercise?
Start taking the time that you would usually spend waiting for your guy to notice you…and invest that time into going after your goals and dreams.
One of the sexiest things to a man is a woman who is confident and has her own thing going on.
Once you spend time focusing and bettering yourself – he is going to be the one going out of his way to spend time with you.
Because YOU are awesome! You have so much to offer and the world to conquer!
Let him get on your level, instead of “leveling up” to get on his!
Thank you again for reading my daily blog here on Saljack Enterprises. If you have a question that you would like answered or you need advice, please write me in the comments. I will try at least once a week to answer any reader’s questions in a blog post!
And stick around for tomorrow’s blog! It’s Casual Friday around here and every Friday I am going to be bringing you a more personal style blog about your friend Ru! And of course, stick around the rest of the week for all things gaming!
See you here tomorrow friends!
“We Spend Our Whole Lives Holding back. Imagine How Quickly You Could Succeed If You Just Take What You Want.” ~ Dennis Rogers (Far Cry 3)